不知何时起，父亲就像“冷”的代名词，记忆中的父亲少与我说话，也甚少关心我。
I do not know when, the father is like the pronoun of the cold, the memory of the father less I speak with me, and little care for me.
自小我便很独立，或是父母亲不太管我的缘故。印象中遇到什么困难都要自己去解决哪怕在你承受范围外。
I will be very independent, or parents not tube because of me. What difficulties encountered in the impression that you have to address even if you can afford to.
还记得小时候，一个雪天，我在雪地里玩。父亲陪着我在小区里玩，皑皑白雪堆积得十分厚重，大地银装素裹，冷得让人直发哆嗦。一个没留神，脚下一滑重重地摔在了地上。“哇哇……”我便哭个不停，像普通的孩子一样磕着碰着只晓得哭，因为这样父母就会来哄我们。 我以为我和其他孩子一样，摔倒了父亲便会抱着我哄我。可是事实上我想错了，父亲没有抱起我哄我，仍由我哭，等着我哭累了不哭了，父亲走到我面前说：“哭好了?那就赶紧起来，回家换件衣服。”当时只觉得委屈，也没多想气呼呼地站起来便往家的方向跑了。甚至我觉得父亲会因为我摔倒了，抱着我回家。可是事实是残酷的，他没有，反而跟在我身后看着我自己走回家。
Remember when, on a snowy day, I play in the snow. My father accompanied me to play in the neighbourhood, the snow piled up very heavy, the land of snow, cold to shiver. An unguarded, slipped and fell on the ground. "Wow......" I can't stop crying, like ordinary children hurt or just cry, because it will come to our parents. I thought I was like other kids, and I fell over my father and held me to me.. But in fact I was mistaken, father didn't pick up the me to coax me, still I cry, and I tired of crying, don't cry, father walked to the front of me and said: "good cry? It would hurry up, home change clothes." At that time, only feel wronged, and did not want to stand up and then go to the direction of the home ran. I even thought my father would fall over me and hug me home.. But the truth is cruel, he did not, but with behind me watching me go home.
记忆里的我还那么小，如果这算是童年阴影的话，那么这样的事例数不胜数。
My memory is so small, if it is childhood, so this case beyond count.
父母很宠你吧?有带你去过游乐园吧?没有，即使每次母亲说要带我去，父亲也会似一盆冷水泼过来;“去什么去?去那种地方找刺激啊?”就这样一盆冷水把我从头冷到尾;一般你生病了怎么办?去医院，不上课?对于我来说，就算烧糊涂了，也得去上课!“哎呀，头怎么这么烫，是不是生病了”母亲疼惜地看着我说，“今天就不要去上课了。”“发个烧就不去上课了?刚测一下，才多少度?38度没事，小烧，去上学。”;父亲总让我独自去学校，从小到大边都是这样。
Parents really spoiled you? Take you ever been to an amusement park? No, even though every time the mother said to take me to, my father would like a basin of cold water poured over; "what went? Go to a place that can stimulate ah?" so a pot of cold water to me from beginning to end is cold; how do you sick? To go to the hospital and school? For me, even burning confused, go to class! "Oh, head of how such a hot, is not sick" mother pamper and looked at me and said. "Today, don't to class." "Send a burn will not go to school? Just take it, how many degrees? 38 right, small burn, go to school." Father always let me go to school, from the childhood, is this.
在我看来，父亲像是个陌生人，对我的事很冷淡，有时还漠不关心，直到我听到面冷心热这个词以后。
In my opinion, the father is like a stranger, very cold to me, and sometimes indifferent, until I hear the cold heart of the term hot.
在上初中之前，因为统考考的不理想，父亲又说不会花钱让我读书。我便彻底的绝望了，以为自己要听天由命上一个不理想的学校。我还在准备结业考，那时的初中差不多报满了人，父亲急的好几天没有睡觉。一个晚上，起来上厕所时无意间听到：“怎么办啊，女儿要上哪个学校，现在的学校都快报满了，”一听就知道是母亲“要不就找找人让她上个好点的学校呗!”“嗯，我再去找找人!”听了父亲的话眼睛湿润了，谢谢您!我的父亲!原来天底下的父亲都是一样的，父亲只是表面看上去对我冷淡，其实在父亲的心里他还是爱我的。第二天父亲一早就出去了，我知道父亲是为我上学除去奔波了，心里有股说不上来的滋味，我知道父亲平时讨厌求人做事，可是为了我父亲不得不这么做!我好想明白了什么!父亲这样的冷淡我是想让我提前步入社会，学会坚强!并非父亲不喜欢我，父亲这样用心良苦我怎么能误会他!
In middle school, because the exam exam is not ideal, the father said not to spend money for my education. I was completely desperate, thought himself to be a ideal school resign oneself to one's fate. I am also preparing to graduate, when the junior middle school almost full of people, the father anxious for several days did not sleep. A night on the toilet inadvertently heard: "how to do ah, daughter in which school, now the school express full," heard that this is mother "or look for her on a good point of school Bai!" "well, I went to look for!" listen to the father's words eyes moist, thank you! My father. The father of the original in the world are the same, father just seems to me the cold shoulder, in fact, in the father's heart he is still in love with me. The next day father early in the morning and went out, I know father is for me to go to school to remove the travel, hearts have shares say taste, I know father was usually the most hate to ask to do things, but to my father to do so! I want to understand what! Father cold I want me to advance into the society, learn to be strong! Wasn't my father doesn't like me, so well intentioned father how can I misunderstand him!
自那天起，我便很少像平常孩子一样不听话撒娇，在父亲的影响下，也逐渐变成一个小大人，懂得遇事要坚强。
From that day on, I seldom like normal children as disobedient act in pettish, under his father's influence gradually turned into a small adult, failing to understand to be strong.
谢谢您!我的“冰”父亲。
Thank you, my father..
