父亲在我小时候的印象中是非常严厉的。也正是因为他的严厉，在我和弟弟之间划出了一道清晰的界线。父亲曾告诉我要做一个“堂堂正正的男子汉”，因此界线这边的我整天忙于父亲给我的事情中，而界线另一边的弟弟是整天的游手好闲。有时还拿我取乐，我真气愤极了。难道这就是做一个男子汉要受的罪吗?我开始嫉妒弟弟，开始恨父亲了，恨他的偏心，恨他无情。 My father was very strict when I was young.. It was because of his severity that he drew a clear line between my brother and me.. Father told me to do a "upright man", so on this side of the boundary, I busy father to me and my brother on the other side of the line is idle all day. Sometimes make fun of me, I really very angry. Is this the crime that a man is going to suffer? I began to envy my little brother and hated his father, hated his eccentricity and hated him for being ruthless..
当父亲再次提起要我做一个“堂堂男子汉”时，我有点不耐烦了，但我还是忍下去了。看我挣扎在繁忙的事情中，父亲不仅没有一点安慰和鼓励的话语，而且有一点做的不好就责骂我，此时我更恨父亲了。回头再看看逍遥自在的弟弟，我终于忍不住了。我站起身来，指着弟弟，把心中的闷气全部发泄出来。顿时，我感到心中是无比的舒畅，我又清楚地知道，自己会受到很大的责骂。于是我跪在父亲的面前等待暴风雨的来临。父亲把弟弟支开了，使我想不到的是父亲不仅没有责骂我，而且用温柔的语言来说服我。那是我第一次听到父亲那样柔和的话语。于是我被父亲的话语打动了。昔日的那份“恨”已化成了对父亲的尊敬，对父亲的爱。此时的我才明白父亲的用心良苦。 When the father again asked me to do a "man", I was a bit impatient, but I still can go on. Watching me struggling in the busy things, my father not only did not have a little comfort and encouragement, but a little do not well scold me, at this time I hate my father. Have a look back to be leisurely and carefree brother, I finally could not resist. I stood up, pointing to his brother, his heart close all out. Suddenly, I feel the heart is very comfortable, I know clearly, oneself will be greatly scold. So I knelt in front of my father and waited for the storm to come.. The father had left his little brother, and it was unexpected that my father had not only failed to scold me, but persuaded me in a tender language.. It was the first time I heard my father's voice like that. So I was touched by my father's words.. The former "hate" has become the respect of the father, love for his father. At this time I knew father have cudgeled one's brains. 从那时起，我开始慢慢地尊敬父亲，爱父亲。我也告诉自己不要让父亲失望，要做一个“堂堂正正的男子汉”。 From then on, I began to slowly honor my father and love my father.. I told myself not to let him down, to be a man. "".
